Lesson 3: Threat - Beings

Negative Energy Beings

One of the threats to the energy field that is often only spoken of in religious circles and referred to as “demons” or the “Devil.” This is the energy of negative thought forms. These are not as scary as they sound and you have full authority over them and their influence over you, once you learn how to work with them.

What is a Being?

A being is a disembodied, negative thought form. It has no physical form and “feeds” off of negative thoughts. Because the negative thought is their source of “food” they do anything they can to grow and harvest negative thoughts.

The relationship with the being is often formed in childhood, when something you experienced was more than you could handle. The being came in and offered you a coping skill, making promises to help you. Because you were young, naive, and wanting out of pain you agreed. You then swapped a part of you for this negative thought form. For a minute, there was relief, and therefore you and the negative thought form bonded.

Now any time there is a similar situation, there is an offering to employ the being and displace yourself. The problem with this model is the being is not helping stop the negative situation or thoughts. In fact, it will keep you in a loop of those thoughts for as long as you will let it engage.

Family Beings

Many families share beings. You can actually see young children “pass” the beings to each other. Families who have poor coping skills often pass their beings down through the generations. For example, there might be a negative thought form that perpetuates racism or substance abuse. Some families relate though their beings and not through their authentic selves.

Once you start talking to your beings and learning more about them, see if you can notice them in your family engagements. Watch what happens when you stop using yours.

How do I know when a Being is present?

First of all, we all have beings attached and we all have multiple beings. You have had them, they are not new. So when you go looking for them don’t freak yourself out or get judgmental. Just handle it with discipline. This is why you are learning this, so you can break free from the cycles.

Signs you are using a being rather than your own mind:

• You perseverate on things that have already happened.

• You won’t let a topic go.

• You talk about a situation in a victim tone and don’t take accountability.

• The negative feeling sticks around, even when you are no longer experiencing the trigger.

• You feel suppressed or stuck in a situation or repeating encounter.

Examples

Here is a silly list of examples of beings that will help you spot yours. 

Iwanna Monster – lives at malls, friend’s new purchases, stores, and any place you are meant to look around to purchase.

Anger Beast – This is the energy you see your children pass from one to the other. First, one kid is on the floor screaming then that one is fine and the other one starts. Anger beasts are basically the energy of frustration, anger, and struggle that comes into your space and bounces around the house. It isn’t always clear where it starts, but sometimes an outside person brings it in from work or any other situation that can cause stress. It rides the waves of whatever can cause agitation.

Judgment Coacher – This is the energy of judgment that goes back and forth. “Oh yeah! Judge me?! Well then I will judge you.” This happens among family, friends and enemies alike, no one is immune so don’t kid yourself.

Unfairness Fairy – This monster preys on children who perceive they have been unjustly treated; someone got something they should get. This is very frequent among siblings as some older children who have privileges that younger children don’t, which causes the younger child to fall prey. On the flip side, older children may fall prey when they have more household responsibilities than the younger child. 

Pity Poltergeist – This is the monster that loves pity of any form. It can make an illness worse and a boo boo feel huge. It can make something last for weeks, which should have been over in seconds.

Perfect Prince or Princess – This sounds like a nice monster, but when it hits it can make you do crazy things to be perfect…or at least appear to be. Friends can share these or you might have a rebellious one that fights against the perfect prince/princess.

Potential Triggers for a Being Encounter

There are endless reasons that might exist for why we feel like we can’t cope. But here are some examples of what might trigger a being encounter:

• You have a negative encounter with someone.

• You run into a pattern that reminds you of your childhood.

• You feel powerless or weak.

• You feel wronged or there has been, what you perceive as, an injustice.

• You are comparing yourself to someone else.

• You have something familiar and negative coming up in the near future.

How do I clear a being from my energy field?

Through meditation or visualization, make contact with the thought form, witnessing it as outside you. Be sure to have acceptance and love in your heart for yourself. This will keep you grounded in the activity.

Ask the being what it is helping you do. Ask it for all that it has done for you and when you started using it (at what age, etc.). Then, check in with yourself; are you ready to start doing this for yourself? Do you feel ready and capable? Why or why not? If you aren’t ready to break it off, set an intention in yourself and come back to this later. Don’t break up with the being until you are truly ready or the connection will only grow stronger.

If you are ready to break it off, let the being know you are grateful for its service (kill it with kindness), that you will be taking your power back from it, and doing things for yourself now. You may need to have more energy work to retrieve parts of the energy it took over, but this should give you space from it. 

Note:

It will hang around hoping to regain access. You will need to say no more than once. It doesn’t mean you failed, just keep saying no to the thoughts it is perpetuating and it will eventually grow tired and leave. 

Try this:

Name your beings. Think of common, victim-centered thoughts you go to often. Have fun with it and then, as you encounter those negative patterns, acknowledge them by name. 

What do I do if someone around me has a being?

Stay in your protective energy field and don’t join in. Which leads us to your next chapter. The Five Tools of Protection.